One is. The other has to become.

An umemployed female can still have a good life and be respected in society if she finds a man to support, be his wife and mother his children.

An unemployed man enjoys no such benefit. His ability to provide is part of his ability to be a man. https://t.co/k1imH2qmak

— Margarita (@margaritaevna95) April 29, 2021

Very true. Women list high income as one of their requirements for a mate. Of course, logically, most men don't.