Amusing how often #ExMuslims are accused of hating Muslims simply b/c we point out flaws in Islam while MANY Muslims call for our murder...— Muhammad Syed (PBUM) (@MoTheAtheist) 13 October 2017
Look at it from the point of view of the [non-Muslim] accusers. It's a short-run survival tactic. Who are you going to verbally thrash? The billion-plus followers of a 1400-years-old religion famous for its brutality, carnage, and death or a few harmless but annoying ex-Muslims.
Of course, this only feeds the Islamic beast which, in the long run, will go on to devour the spineless accusers. It's sad but that's human nature. Just look at the 1930s and see how England and France repeatedly sacrificed small innocent peoples for Germany to avoid a big war. End result? The most lethal war in history.