The essential problem is that the combination of female solipsism with female hypergamy means that too many women now desire the logically impossible and the statistically improbable. Women are attracted to men who possess qualities of size, earning potential, education, and, yes, intelligence, that are superior to their own. That's fine, but the problem is when they believe that men are attracted to the same thing.
Women say they want equality and a man who is a sensitive feminist and then they go out and buy Fifty Shades of Grey.
Women are attracted to a more intelligent and credentialed man but only 40% of university students are men. These left over women are the architects of their own misery.
But don't you forget: they are very very clever.